Bullying?

How to Prevent Bullying?

                Bullying is a despicable act carried out by everyone in the world. This is very dangerous, especially for students because it can make victims of depression, feel isolated in association, loss of self-confidence, even trying to commit suicide. Therefore bullying has to end. There are Several things to must do in preventing bullying. Because psychologist Andrew Mellor bullying is an experience that occurs when feeling the persecuted by the actions of others and he is afraid because of that it must be prevented and the government gives law No. 23 of 2002 article 54 concerning the protection of children so that bullying does not occur. The way to preventing are Give clear rules to make them sure to do it, Show them positive behavior and good attitude to make them imitate what we do. And then Closed, open communication and give them more attention.

            First of all, how to prevent bullying is to give clear rules to make them sure to do it. Because kak seto, teachers and parents, and also compas.com and olweus, 1993 said that there must be strict actions or regulations for the perpetrators of bullying. By giving clear rules, all students must obey them without exception, for those who violate the rules give them punishment. And the rules must be committed and consistent because if the regulations are not strong, students will not obey them. The most important thing is firmness in making rules so that all students do not consider the rules a trivial matter.

            The next, Show them positive behavior and good attitude to make them imitate what we do. Because from research of Ediburga, it makes them positive thinking and habitual on their life. It is very important to do not only the learning that they get but must be cultivated by character education. That is very important because a student imitates what he sees. This happened because a student could not distinguish between what was good and what was bad, especially with their unstable attitude making them difficult to control themselves. So positive behavior and good attitude must be applied.

            Finally, try to closed, open communication and give them more attention. Because from compas.com, family and people are closed to them and is open communication, it makes them feel precious and John P. Caughlin & allison M.Scot said that the most important thing is to ensure the realization of security. Communication is a good action to prevent bullying and effective communication, namely: respect, empathy, and audible. With communication, they are more familiar with one's character so that they can prevent the occurrence of bullying.

            In conclusion, in the prevention of bullying must apply clear and committed and consistent rules. Show positive behavior and good attitude to they are imitate. Closed, open communication and give them more attention. Thus bullying can be prevented by the existence of bullying prevention measures. In essence, prevention is better than cure.